Do you have a habit of looking for something that is not present? For example, you are in a store that sells diamond jewelry, then you would ask the saleslady if they have pearls. Crazy, is it not?
I just thought about this because, I heard the vegetable vendor outside selling to one of our neighbors. I am pretty sure that our neighbor saw what is available at the cart. There were papaya, ampalaya, pechay, kalabasa, and a lot more of vegetable produce. You know what my neighbor was looking for? Leaves of a certain vegetable. Why ask for something that is obviously not there? Usually, the vendors or sellers would just give the impression that you do not really want to buy or worse you do not have enough money to buy what is being sold.
Proper communication, people! Well I am like that also most of the time but since I am already aware of it now, I wpould be able to control it. I hope so. 
